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How To Entertain In Style: Setting An Elegant Table

Avatar photoNechama Eisenman • Apr 19, 2016 (Updated: Aug 20, 2019)
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I love a perfectly set table. An elegant tablescape is truly an art form, and should be valued as much as the fancy cuisine that is served. These six steps to setting a stunning table will wow your guests before they even taste the food.

1. Choose A Well-Fitted Tablecloth 

Often underestimated, these blank canvases for a tablescape masterpiece are art unto themselves. Tablecloths can be as attractive as they are functional, and your table couture should be as fine as the china above it. Solid white or other neutral tones work best as an understated backdrop.

2. Centerpiece

Centerpieces can run the gamut from simple tea lights atop upside down stemware, to elaborate floral bouquets. Whatever your centerpiece choice, it is sure to increase the wow factor and spark conversation. Take care, however, that it isn’t too large that it would obstruct your guests’ view of each other.

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3. Add a Charger (Underplate)

An elegant table is not complete without decorative underplates. Since food is never served directly on them, chargers can be found in a variety of unique materials. These oversized plates are an inexpensive way to add a pop of color, texture, or pattern to your table. Atop the charger, I set a china dinner plate, followed by a first-course soup bowl or salad plate. 

 4. Silverware

Whether you are eating a casual dinner at home, or hosting a formal event, silverware is always positioned in the order in which it will be used, from the outside in. Forks are placed to the left of the plate, the first course fork being the one farthest to the left, and knives and spoons are placed in a corresponding order on the right. Dessert spoons or forks should always be placed horizontally above the plate. With regard to patterns of silverware, consider utilizing mismatched utensils, as long as they share a common denominator. 

5. Glassware

Glassware is positioned directly above the knives, to the right of the plate, and can be tailored according to which beverages you intend to serve. As with the utensils, glassware is arranged in order of use, beginning with the water glass, directly above the dinner knife and extending to the red and white wine glasses to the upper right and side.  

6. Napkins and Seating Cards

Last, but certainly not least, is one of my favorite elements of table setting- I adore the creative potential of the napkins and seating cards. Napkins come in a variety of materials and textures, from linen to silk, and may be folded and placed in myriad ways– the center of the dinner plate, or beneath the forks.  Although optional, napkin rings can really animate your setting as they come in so many unique designs. Like the table settings they grace, seating cards are also aesthetically pleasing while serving a purpose. Try matching your seating cards with the theme of the event- whether it be a holiday, or simply a color scheme. Small party favors or edible treats can double as whimsical place cards. 

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About Nechama Eisenman

Nechama Eisenman is a three year consecutive winner of the “World’s Okayest Mom” title, and never met a cupcake she didn’t like. She rejoices in finding G-d in the mundane, is madly in love with her husband and two little girls, and relies on spurts of infectious baby giggles to get through the day.

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  1. Melissa Miriam Meltzer

    Apr 27, 2016 at 3:15 am

    I love the simplicity and beauty of the Milano 🙂

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  2. Emily W

    Apr 26, 2016 at 2:06 am

    As a New York ex-pat, I’m going to have to go with the Manhattan!

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  3. Kristen P

    Apr 25, 2016 at 12:40 pm

    I love the Sorrento! Beautiful pattern!

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  4. Emilee Bond

    Apr 25, 2016 at 6:28 am

    I love Parisian in cream… well really in any of the colors! Wow… just so beautiful!!!

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  5. joanknudson

    Apr 24, 2016 at 8:32 am

    I like the tablecloth that is the drawing. Everything is really nice.

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  6. sarah cool

    Apr 24, 2016 at 2:32 am

    I love the Chicago tablescape most!

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  7. Sara A

    Apr 22, 2016 at 1:17 am

    Ahhh I like them all! But maybe the Valencia the best?

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  8. Liberty

    Apr 22, 2016 at 12:43 am

    I like the Chicago design 🙂

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  9. Justin

    Apr 21, 2016 at 9:17 pm

    My favorite is the Valencia table cloth by Dorell. so simple and elegant looking. perfect for holiday time when we have guests over for dinner

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  10. Bernice

    Apr 21, 2016 at 8:23 pm

    Chicago in silver is stunning. I have two of these cloths and they are very elegant, and wash amazingly well. Highly recommend

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  11. Caryn

    Apr 21, 2016 at 7:25 pm

    I like the Manhattan!

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  12. tiffany dayton

    Apr 21, 2016 at 7:02 pm

    Florence

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  13. sarahhirsch

    Apr 21, 2016 at 5:05 pm

    I like the milano tablesetting

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  14. Robyn

    Apr 21, 2016 at 4:34 pm

    Cambridge

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  15. Maria C.

    Apr 21, 2016 at 3:57 pm

    Sorento is my first choice

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  16. aressbi

    Apr 21, 2016 at 6:24 am

    Monte Carlo, for the nice warm colors, very inviting and appetizing. Then the Venezia, also nice and warm. The glasses on Chicago are beautiful, though.

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  17. Angela Hendricks

    Apr 21, 2016 at 2:50 am

    I posted on IG @kitty_katz_6

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  18. Angela Hendricks

    Apr 21, 2016 at 2:44 am

    I love the Milano tablescape! Beautiful!!!

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  19. Susan Climan

    Apr 20, 2016 at 10:51 pm

    Tough choice, but I like the Sorrento.

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  20. e.s.

    Apr 20, 2016 at 9:33 pm

    They are all pretty..maybe Valencia

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  21. Samantha

    Apr 20, 2016 at 7:27 pm

    Oxford!

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  22. Elizabeth

    Apr 20, 2016 at 7:13 pm

    I love to set a beautiful table! Love the silver teapots as vases!

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  23. Cheryl Zwiren

    Apr 20, 2016 at 6:17 pm

    Florence

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  24. asiverson

    Apr 20, 2016 at 6:15 pm

    Beautiful! and Mazel Tov, Happy Passover, everyone! Annette

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  25. rajee

    Apr 20, 2016 at 6:11 pm

    I love this http://dorella.ca/collections/luxury-table-linen/products/chicago

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  26. elisse

    Apr 20, 2016 at 5:42 pm

    They are all lovely, but Chicago is truly unique and my fave! But I love Milano and those “buckle” napkin rings, too!

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  27. Amanda

    Apr 20, 2016 at 5:24 pm

    Sorrento

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  28. Susan

    Apr 20, 2016 at 2:58 pm

    I love the Milano tablescape! Its classic, elegant and chic!

    Reply
  29. abigail

    Apr 20, 2016 at 1:56 pm

    I’d love to win!

    Reply

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